Fear, the most powerful incapacitation system any human has
“He’s different from me, right?”
We often think like this when we see successful people or seemingly strong people. But they are just like us. And for them, for us, the biggest enemy to overcome is fear.
Fear is not just an emotion. It is the most powerful ‘Debuff’ in the real world, which drastically reduces our power and intelligence. As soon as we feel afraid, we cannot make the best judgments, hesitate to act, and miss our chances.
Key insights from the Real World Survival Game:
- Fear is universal: no matter how strong your appearance may seem, fear exists even in a real ‘strong person’. What makes them different from you is not fearless, it’s the ‘existence power’ that moves despite fear.
- Build a fear management system: It’s impossible to completely eliminate fear. But we can create an environment where we can ‘treat’ and ‘pass’ fear.
- Repeat small success experiences: Build fulfilling muscles by achieving small goals. This makes it a powerful vaccine that can counteract when fear is pushed in.
- Simplifying Decision Structure: Before fear paralyzes your judgment, plan ahead and simplify your action steps to save power.
- Community power: meet and talk to new people, let them look at my fears objectively and create a supported environment.
Do not lose your strength and intelligence from fear. Create an environment where you ‘stand’ your fears and pass them through with actions. Real World winners are not those who overcome fear, but those who have endured it the longest!